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Wednesday 20 August, 2008
By  shainy   23:03 | 30/May/2007 |  15 Comment(s)
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Philosophy


Is this for losers? Someone who has lost and is desperately trying to find a reason to justify the loss…

I find myself being pretty blasé about loses because of the belief that there is more to life than small loses here and there. After all it’s important to win the war even if that means we have to sometimes lose the small battles here and there.

Now I am beginning to question this attitude of mine. Was this brought about because of my non aggression and wanting a label that was well, less unflattering?

Philosophy to justify why I didn’t get something when I should have? I don’t know. However this very philosophy altered my perceptions and saved the day for me.

Yesterday I felt like there was nothing left for me anywhere. I was in a cesspool from where there seemed no way out or in. There was a restive restlessness within. I spoke to a friend of mine and she set me free. All she said was:
When you feel stagnant and feel that all doors are closing in, remember to pay attention. For another door is opening for you. That is the law of nature. Hark for the change in your life and take control.

So, in the end this very philosophy made my day.  

You guys been through such phase too?
 

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